“Love
bears all things…endures all things.” – 1 Corinthians 13:7
Recently I was
reading an article written in facebook. Actually a guy wrote that article about
his wife which really touched my heart.
He was engaged to a
very beautiful girl and after his engagement, he dreamt a lot about his future
with that girl. Unfortunately days before his marriage, the girl went away with
another guy whom she loved. He could not bear that sorrow. As his parents
insisted him to marry a relative girl on the same day, he married her without
any interest upon her.
As she was
physically fat compared to the other girl, he could not love her at all. He
hated her to the core from the first day of their marriage. He won’t speak to
her for a minute. She used to wake up early, cook, wash his clothes and does
all the household stuff. Then in the afternoon she will go to her office for
work. When she returns back late night he will be slept.
Though she could
not get the love of her husband, she loved him with so much patience. One day
his mother spoke very rudely to her as she was barren. She knew the reason for
that but yet she never spoke a word against anyone but left their house
politely.
He was also happy
as his wife left their home. But one day when he was reading certain poetry
that she had written for him and kept on the cupboard, his heart melt. He could
able to understand the love of his wife and he felt that he too missed her
badly.
So he went to her
mother-in-law’s house thinking his wife would have went there after his mother
spoke badly about her. He prepared to defend himself if someone in his
mother-in-law’s house asks anything about the fight. But when he went there he
understood that his wife never went there. Then when he searched for her, he
found that she was staying as a paying guest in a women’s hostel for two weeks without
informing anything to her parents about the afflictions that she was facing in
her husband’s house.
He brought her home
and fell down at her feet begging for her forgiveness. She immediately forgave
him and hugged him. He ends that long article concluding that they were so
happy now and she is carrying their twin babies.
Many who have
commented on that article appreciated his wife for being so patient and endured
all afflictions with love.
I was wondering how
a girl could love her husband like that when he hated her to the core! She
loved her husband so much that she patiently endured all afflictions. She loved
him so truly even when he was not worthy to deserve her love.
Because she endured
the afflictions, today her family is built and they were living happily.
Love bears all
things and endures all things. Love your spouse without any expectations. They
might not deserve your love. But love them anyway. Do not run away from your marriage
relationship. One day God will answer your tears and you will definitely have a
happy blessed life.
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